Charles R. Smith
As I have mentioned on other occasions, classifying oneself as a
Senior Adult is not an exact science. While some people wear the label
as a badge of honor, others still reserve the right to wait to
claim that distinction. A Senior Adult is quoted as saying, "I don't
want candles on my birthday cake, because I refuse to make light
of my age."
I am certainly not going to tag anyone as a Senior Adult, but I will
offer this checklist to allow self-classification. "You know you
are old: when you know all the answers, but nobody asks you the
questions; when your favorite part of the newspaper is "25 years ago";
when you stoop to tie your shoelaces and ask yourself, `What else can I
do while I''m down here?'' You know you are old when everybody goes to
your birthday party and stands around the cake just to keep warm; when
you are 17 around the neck, 44 around the waist and you shoot 105 on the
golf course; when your back goes out more than you do; when your knees
buckle, but your belt doesn't. You know you are definitely old when it's
about time to hang it all up, and you can't even remember where you left
most of it; when dialing long distance wears you out; (And my favorite)
when you turn off the lights for economic reasons rather than
romantic ones."
Having a sermon title of "Lost and Found" on Senior Adult Sunday may
seem a bit strange to some. What have senior adults lost? Old
bankers never die; they just lose their balance. Old mailmen
never die; they just lose their zip. Old superintendents never
die; they just lose their principals. Old photographers never
die; they just stop developing. Old accountants never die; they just
lose their balance. Old lawyers never die; they just lose
their appeal. Old speakers never die, they just go on and on and on and
on . . . "
Some senior adults may be losing their memory. Three women are
talking. The first says: "I go to the refrigerator and forget what I
needed."
Second woman: "When I go upstairs, I can't remember whether I'm going
up for something or if I'm going back downstairs."
Third woman: "I'm lucky, I guess (knocking on wood), I don't have
that problem. Oh, there's someone at the door."
And then someone might use the term "lost" in another context. A
traveling evangelist drove by and stopped a farmer who was working in
his field. "Are you lost?" shouted the evangelist.
"No," said the farmer. "I’ve lived around here all my life."
"But are you a member of the Christian family?"
"No," said the farmer. "They live two more farms down the road."
Desperate, the evangelist shouted, "Are you ready for the Judgment
Day?!"
"When is it?" asked the farmer.
"It may be today or tomorrow!" responded the evangelist.
"Well," said the farmer, "When you find out for sure when it is, let
me know. My wife will probably want to go both days."
The word "lost" has many meanings. In Luke 15, Jesus told three parables
about being lost and found, namely the lost sheep, the lost coin, and
the lost son. This morning I’d like us to focus on the first two
parables.
As Jesus was on his way to Jerusalem, knowing that he was going to
die there, he seized many opportunities to teach valuable lessons. The
students present for this teachable moment in Luke 15 are of two groups:
people who are not acceptable to the rank-and-file religious
establishment and then those who represent the religious
establishment. The two groups symbolize those who are considered the
outsiders and those of the "in crowd."
Jesus described a scene which perhaps those with him on the road had
witnessed. Jesus asked the listeners, "Suppose one of you had 100 sheep
and one of them got lost. Wouldn’t you leave the 99 in search of the
lost one until you found it? Aren’t individual sheep important enough to
search for them? Don’t individual sheep have worth? And when you found
it, wouldn’t you be so glad that you had to tell someone; so you
called your friends and said, Good news, I found my lost sheep," and
then you celebrated. That parable is a lost and found story. Not only
was the sheep lost, but more importantly the shepherd thought it was so
important that he went looking until he found it.
What a great image of God! That is exactly the message of the
Incarnation. God loved us so much that God came in the form of a person
to come and get dirty by looking for lost sheep. In the parable,
the shepherd put the sheep on his shoulders and carried him back to the
fold. How many times has the Good Shepherd gone looking for us,
searching through the briars and thistles of life, finding us scarred
and scared and still picks us up, places us on his shoulders to
bring us back to the fold.
The second parable reinforces the first one. Even though the lady had
nine coins, the tenth one was still important to her. To find it, she
would do all she could to retrieve it. Lighting a lamp indicated that
she would even look when it was dark, not waiting until the next day
when sunlight could fill her home for the search. Searching every nook
and cranny of her house, she continued to seek the lost coin until she
finally found it. Again, this is a lost and found story. And when the
coin was found, she had to tell someone. Her joy came not in her ability
to search, but her joy came in finding the coin.
In neither parable, the emphasis was not why the sheep nor coin were
lost. In the first parable, no mention was made of broken fences,
greener pastures, or the intelligence of sheep. In the second parable,
no mention was made of an irresponsible money manager, a hole in the
lady’s change purse, nor forgetfulness of a busy mom.
Both parables simply say that the owner of the sheep and the owner of
the coin had lost something important, and they searched, and they
searched, and they searched until they found it. They did not search so
they could brag about their investigative skill, their problem-solving
prowess, or their keen eyesight.
They searched and searched and searched because they wanted to
find what was lost; the one sheep and the one coin were important enough
to stop everything else. For the shepherd and the woman, the earth might
as well have stopped spinning, because they were going to seek the lost
until it was found.
That is the kind of love that God has for us, not just as a group,
although God loves Hampton Baptist as much as every other church. This
is the kind of love that God has for you and for me. The sheep and
obviously the coin did nothing to be worthy of the search. The
emphasis is on the searching shepherd and the seeking woman, and then
the focus turns to the rejoicing when the lost are found.
Common to both parables is the ensuing party. "Celebrate with me;
I’ve found my lost sheep." "Celebrate with me; I’ve found my lost coin."
Those listening to Jesus’ parables that day perhaps did not fully
realize that no matter if they were insiders or outsiders,
that they were all God’s children. The outsiders, those who were known
sinners of the day, the people whose outward action made them offensive
to the self-proclaimed acceptable wanted to be included, because
everyone wants to be accepted. The outsiders reveled in the fact
that God would come looking for them, that they were that
important, because most of the time, the message sent to them by
religious people was that they were not important. But with the
parable, Jesus taught that they were important too.
The insiders who heard the parables were also God’s children; the
point of the parables was that God loves everyone the same, and God is
willing to go great lengths to find those who are lost. That should come
as good news, because everyone can get lost, yet the
religious elite did not think they were lost nor did they believe that
they were capable of being lost. They were not interested in
celebrating when the lost were found; instead they were more prone to
blame the directionally-challenged sheep or the coin which happened to
fall out of an apron pocket.
Here’s a news flash: even today, we are all God’s children. Whether
we have strayed from the fold or fallen through the cracks, we are all
God’s children. Whether we are insiders or outsiders, been-heres or
come-heres, rich or poor, male or female, old or young, we are all God’s
children. As such, a variety of circumstances can lead to all of us
feeling lost sometime. Painful childhood memories haunt some people
until they leave the fold in search of ways to ease their pain. Present
circumstances cloud some people’s perceptions, and they lose their way.
Others feel lost because they simply aren’t as extraverted or gregarious
as the others in the room. When relationships fail, when family members
disappoint us, or when friends desert us (emotionally or physically), we
can feel lost. Yet even at our lowest of lost times, the Good Shepherd
comes looking for us. Why we feel lost isn’t why the shepherd
begins the search. Instead, because we are all God’s children, our Good
Shepherd will come looking for us because of love; and the shepherd
loves us all the same.
So what do the parables of the lost sheep and the lost coin have to
do with Senior Adults? Some senior adults perhaps wonder if they are of
use to the church anymore. At one time, they were considered leaders,
attending every event when the doors were open, bringing the whole
family to church. Now that the children are grown and perhaps a spouse
has died, some seniors wonder if the church needs them. Some come
to this same room where they have worshiped for decades, yet the pastor
is new, and the people on the pew in front or behind them are not
familiar anymore. Some Senior Adults physically worked in this
building and maybe on this building, but their health now limits
this kind of activity, and they feel lost.
While these changes can and perhaps do bring feelings of lostness
to some Senior Adults, there are many avenues where Senior Adults can be
found. A variety of Sunday School Classes are offered each week, some
which are taught by Senior Adults. Our Victory Singers practice weekly
and sing a couple of times each month in worship. Under the leadership
of Tom Matthews, our Senior Moments ministry gathers for day-trips
providing fellowship and camaraderie. Our Homebound Deacon Ministry Team
ministers to some Senior Adults in unique ways. Videos and DVDs of our
worship services are available and taken to those who request them. And
today, we are having a catered luncheon to honor our Senior Adults.
Senior Adult ministry is alive and well at Hampton Baptist.
A woman of extremely advanced years was being interviewed for a
television show. At one point, her young interviewer asked, "What was
life like in your day?"
With a coolly polite smile, the old woman answered, "This is
my day." And that describes so many of our Senior Adults. Where
are our Senior Adults found? Some serve as Deacons and provide service
on almost every committee in the church. Some sing in the Sanctuary
Choir and Steeple Singers; some work in our weekly Soup Kitchen; some
participate in A Night’s Welcome; some are involved in WMU, Media
library, volunteer in the church office, and some were on our mission
trip to Appalachia last summer.
Not only does the church need these seniors, but God
needs these seniors.
Actress Marie Dressier once said, "It''s not how old you are
that matters; it's how you are old."
While some Senior Adults may feel lost at church, I hope that
as a group you continue to be found serving Christ through
Hampton Baptist.
Let’s be grateful that our God continues to look for us, even when we
feel lost. Let’s be thankful that God loves us all the same and that we
are all God’s children. And finally, let’s recommit ourselves to do our
part in showing that love by searching for those who are lost. That
is a reason to celebrate.